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A World Waiting To Be Won Duncan Heaster email the author

 
 

14. People Matter

14-1 People Matter || 14-2 A Feeling God || 14-3 The Personal Pleading Of The Prophets || 14-4 Passionate Preaching And Prayer

15. Hearts That Bleed

15-1 Hearts That Bleed || 15-2 The Parable of The Three Friends || 15-3 Passion For The Lost || 15-4 Loving Our Brethren || 15-5 Reaching Those Who Left Church || 15-6 The Heart Of Jesus || 15-7 The Value Of Persons || 15-8 A dehumanized world || 15-9 Grieving for others

 

15-2 The Parable of The Three Friends

The Lord told a parable about three friends. One friend, presumably very poor, arrives at midnight at the doorstep of friend number two. Perhaps those not from an Eastern background can never understand the pressing urgency of the hospitality culture; you must feed the visitor. It just has to be done. But he is poor, and he doesn’t have any bread. So, he goes to his richer friend, friend number three, and wakes him up, disturbing the whole household, to ask him to give him some bread with which to entertain the first friend. Because of his " importunity" , the rich friend gave to him. The Greek translated " importunity" means lack of shamefacedness, lack of reverence. The Greek word is an-aideia: without aidos. What does aidos mean? It is used twice in the New Testament: in 1 Tim. 2:9 " shamefacedness" , and in Heb. 12:28 " serve God acceptably with reverence" . The man (who the Lord invites us to see as representing us) comes to the rich friend (cp. God) wit out this reverence. Now of course we should serve our God with appropriate reverence. But there ought to be times when we as it were rush to God, because He is our father and our friend, without that formality which our worship of Him might more usually include. Contrary to the ideas of popular religion, God is not merely something to be worshipped; He is Father and friend, the one to run to in time of urgent need when that need arises from the requirements of His people and His work.  

The Lord will one day come to us at midnight, and the unworthy will not open to Him (Song 5). And He right now stands at the door and knocks (Rev. 3:20). The rejected will know what it is like to stand knocking at the Lords shut door and be unanswered (Mt. 25:10; Lk. 13:25). He surely intended us to make such links within His teachings. The message is quite clear- those who cant be bothered to respond to the knocking of others, who refuse to feel for others in their desperation… these are the ones who will then come to know just how that feels, as in ultimate spiritual desperation they hammer at the Lords door. >From this it surely follows that in our response to the desperation of others, we are working out our own eternal destiny. We are deciding whether or not the Lord will respond to us, as we lay there prostrate before Him at judgment, knowing our desperation whilst at the same time believing and hoping in His love and response. When we see others in their needs, the sister who cant get to meeting because nobody will baby-sit for her once in a while, the brother who just needs someone to talk to, someone to listen, an evening of someone’s time, the man over there who is so lost in his Catholicism, that guy so addicted to his dreams of personal wealth, the woman back there hooked on dope, the single father with two spastic children, the grandmother left to bring up three children on a tiny pension in one room with broken windows and severe winters, the refugees streaming over that border day after day… we are confronted with these pictures daily.

They are knocking at our door, at midnight. And we would rather not be disturbed. We would rather acknowledge their status as our friends, our brothers and sisters, but make excuses as to why here and now we cant respond. To tell the friend that, well, give him bread tomorrow…this was quite inappropriate. It could have been argued that they didn’t need bread right then. They could wait till morning. But the friend appreciated the shame and the awkwardness of his friend…his heart felt for him, and he responded. It isn’t just dire material need we should feel for, therefore; but feel for others in the sheer humanity of their life situations, and have a heart willing to try to give them all they need in them.

Paul’s writings are packed with allusions back to the Lords parables. In his reference to the tale of the three friends, Paul seems to have understood just as we have done. Rom. 16:1,2 comments that the ecclesia should welcome " Phoebe our sister receive her in the Lord, as becometh saints, and that ye assist her in whatsoever business she hath need of you: for she hath been a succourer of many" . " Hath need" is the same Greek word as in Lk. 11:8- the friend gave whatever was needed to the friend who arrived from his journey. And Paul says this should be done for Phoebe because she lived a life of giving out to others needs.

The friend who came on his journey with " nothing" (Lk. 11:6) is intended by the Lord to be understood primarily as referring to the disciples whom He had sent out on their journey with nothing (" take nothing for your journey" , Lk. 9:3). When He told them to " eat such things as are set before you" (Lk. 10:8), He didn’t just mean ‘Don’t be picky about your food’. He used the same word in Lk. 11:6 to describe how the faithful friend " set [food] before" his visitor. As they travelled around, the disciples were to be received in the way He was describing. Those in that early brotherhood of believers who received and supported them were to do so knowing that these brethren were in their turn responding to human need, and they could be fellow-helpers in the Gospel’s work by showing hospitality. John says just the same: " Because that for his names sake they went forth [alluding to the great commission to go into all the world], taking nothing of the Gentiles [i.e. the unbelievers]. We therefore ought to help receive such, that we might be fellow-helpers to the truth" (3 Jn. 7,8).

The knocking on the door is specifically a symbol of prayer. If we see our brothers need, even if we can do nothing physically to help (and so often, we cant); we will pray earnestly for them. If we truly feel for them, we will pray for them. The friend troubles his friend for help (Lk. 18:7), just as in another parable about prayer the desperate widow " troubles" the judge for a response (Lk. 18:5). " From within" (11:7) is always used in the Bible about the inner man, rather than meaning indoors. The Greek word occurs twice in the same context: " your inward part…that which is within" (11:39,40). Inside himself, he spoke to his friend: " Trouble me not" . Yet that satan within him, that desire to be selfish, was overcome by his realization of his friends need, and why it had arisen. And if we have this same emboldened conscience to overcome our innate selfishness and ask of our Father for the sake of others, then we will s the work of the ministry will be provided by Him- that is His sober promise. Jn. 15:16 is one of John’s versions of the great preaching commission: " I chose you and appointed you, that ye should go and bear fruit…whatsoever ye shall ask of the Father in my name, he may give it you" . The promise of support and help and answered prayer is again held out- in the context of preaching and ministering to the Gospel.

For The World

We should preach because we know the Gospel, because we are men and women charged with good news- which is what the very word evangelio implies. We will want to lift the load of shame and guilt that burden men down, with the good news of Gods saving grace. This is where our preaching ought to be different to the preaching of other Christian groups. Their goal seems to be getting more members for their church. We must ask: Are we evangelizing, or are we recruiting? The knowledge of the True Gospel, the real good news which none others have…this ought to make our witness far different from their drives to recruit more members to their religion. We should be seeking to liberated the hurt and the lost, rather than trying to merely validate ourselves and the faith of our fathers. We must ask ourselves whether we have the right focus; whether we are leading people into the grace and real empowerment that comes from walking simply, honestly and closely with God; or are we adding to the good news until its not good any more? Are we really using grace and truth to tear down the fortresses of unbelief or false belief…or are we more taken up with struggling over what type of hymn book we have, or dress standards, or stopping people chew gum in church? We each have a tendency to withdraw from the world, secluding ourselves, observing life without truly participating in it. Yet in preaching the Gospel we seek to break down the barrier between observer and participator, and enter into others’ lives. We are humans, all our knowledge of the Truth does not make us somehow separate from all the rest of us. And this is the basis for our love and concern for them.

Thomas Merton in Confessions Of A Guilty Bystander sums it up nicely:

“In Louisville, at the corner of Fourth and Walnut, in the center of the shopping district, I was suddenly overwhelmed with the realization that I loved all those people, that they were mine and I theirs, that we could not be alien to one another even though we were total strangers…those ‘out of the world’ are in the same world as everybody else, the world of the bomb, the world of race hatred, the world of technology, the world of mass media, big business, revolution and all the rest”(1).

And truly did John Donne write in his Devotions: “Any man’s death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind, and therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee”. Yet it is cruelly difficult to be sensitive in today’s world. Those who are so often end up destroying that sensitivity in order to escape the pain that comes from being truly sensitive. Yet this was the pain of the life of Jesus, and all those others whose hearts bled for others. The Gospel answers to actual human need, as glove fits hand, but we can only take the Gospel to the human need if we ourselves, as preachers, are motivated by a passion and sensitivity for their need.


Notes

(1) Thomas Merton, Confessions Of A Guilty Bystander (Garden City, New York: Doubleday, 1965).


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